I’m so breaking this table

A friend shared a story with me and I’m here to rant about it.

She met a guy at an event few months ago and they clicked almost immediately. The chemistry between them was undeniable and they found out they had a lot in common. Of course, they exchanged contacts.

About two weeks after, the guy told her how much he liked her and wanted them to start dating, but my girl only just left a toxic relationship, so she felt she needed a little more healing time. She told the guy about her story and he agreed to taking things slow. They talked on the phone almost everyday and have hung out three times in the last two and a half months.

Few days ago, she was scrolling through Instagram when she saw a video. Lo and behold, it was “her guy’s” proposal video. From the lady’s caption, she found out that the guy had been dating the girl for more than three years.

She felt so devastated because she really liked this guy and was actually starting to think she had healed enough to move on and start something serious with him.

She buzzed him up that same day and asked if they could go out on a date the coming weekend.

Guess what? He said yes.

My friend asked me what I thought she should do. She felt she owed it to the guy’s fiancé to let her know what her man had been up to but I told her not to do that and just let go.

Right now, I don’t feel I gave her the right advice.

How do these scumbags sleep at night knowing they are messing with different ladies’ heart?

I wasn’t going to include my story but then, WTH?

Ola (not his real name, let’s pity him small) and I were cool friends back in university. He dated another friend of mine and really, everyone thought those two were definitely going to get married to each other.

We lost contact and only reconnected sometimes late last year. That was when he told me how much he likes me and that he had always had feelings for me… bla bla blah. He said he knows me well, he understands my person (he does actually) and he felt we had all it takes to make a relationship work.

I thought it was weird because, heck, I’m still friends with his ex.

He would call me and ask that I come spend the weekend at his place but me that I know I cannot come and be struggling or fighting kung fu with a man all through the night, {check my YouTube video about Sleepover Struggles here} I kept giving different excuses.

Fast forward to couple of weeks ago, I saw a mutual friend’s WhatsApp status wishing him congratulations on his engagement. I was surprised because I saw that same picture on his status earlier that day but it had no suggestive caption.

I went back to his status and commented on the picture “Hey, congratulations on your engagement…“

He replied with, “Thanks dearie”

I won’t even lie, I sweared for him. Big swear o

What the f**k? Did he seriously just “Thanks dearie” me when he still called me about a month ago to come spend the weekend at his place?

Like wow… I didn’t even know what to say.

I just feel bad for my sisters who are happy their men finally popped the question meanwhile the jerk is still out there asking another girl out.

I also feel bad for my sisters who are already catching feelings for a guy without knowing he is engaged or even married to somebody else.

Dear Lord, any man who is on this table that is considering coming close to me, may he fall inside gutter and break his leg before he gets the chance in Jesus’ name, AMEN!

PS: Pardon my French please.


Bolaji Gelax

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18 thoughts on “SCUMBAG!!!

  1. 😂😂😂😂😂😂It’s hilarious until I think of similar experiences I had😣😣😣😣

  2. Hmmm! Real matter… #thingswehear
    I’ve been in a “circle of friends” where the groom was telling of his escapades with his ex two days before the wedding… (now u know why I was there) She, the ex actually agreed for a last time “girunda” before he walk the isle, after he suggested it. And I reasoned to myself “what if she had strangled him to death while in d ecstasy of d moment, or slash off his pimpim impromptu, or spike his drink and have him filmed in his birthday suit, or have the wife to-be around and she smashes his head with anger?” There are one thousand ways to kill a man unfortunately. Fortunately for this one, he escaped cos she wanted it. (The one for the aisle)

    1. Oh Kachi, I had such a good laugh. Thank you for helping me relieve the stress… Girunda? Pimpim? Oh my world… LMAO

  3. One thing I’ve come to realise about guys (and also ladies) cheating just before marriage or while in a serious relationship is this… ‘we’ (trying not to act holy) mostly don’t understand what commitment means: “A lil side game won’t hurt, after all what my partner doesn’t know won’t kill him/her…” Right? If only we can understand the word commitment, then we’d stick to it.

  4. First, we all need deliverance. I don’t if a lot of people know what the word ‘commitment’ really entails.

    Thanks for stopping by 😊

  5. The ‘thanks dearie’ has got me so heated. I cannot believe he hit you with that after everything! The complete arrogance of some people, he wasn’t even slightly worried! It’s so wrong for people to be acting like this on one hand and proposing on the other. Thankfully there are still some good people around (I hope!)

    1. That part irked me.

      I won’t be surprised if he sends me his wedding invitation… I’ll probly go to the wedding to disrupt it🤣 (I hope he doesn’t)

  6. Omg the fact he actually said ‘thanks dearie’ after previously asking you to spend the weekend with him, like wtf!!! Did he even message you after this to explain?! These men really are scumbags

  7. Great write up Gelax!!!
    This just stirred some ol’ waters…my conclusions were there is good and bad in every one, the more of the side you are defines you.
    Always Prepare for the Worst and Hope for the Best. It hurts less,as I said it’s just my conclusion


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